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Spousal Support Duration – Why Our Laws Should Change

Spousal support is one of the most contentious issues in a divorce proceeding, perhaps second only to child custody and visitation. The amount of spousal support is one contentious issue, with the duration of spousal support being another. The focus here is the duration.

In marriages of short duration, less than ten years, the length of spousal support is limited to one-half the length of marriage. There is minimal controversy concerning this law. In fact, the certainty of the law serves to guide expedient spousal support settlements.

Spousal Support Duration

However, in marriages of duration of ten years or more, there is no statutory limit.

The lack of a limit provides great uncertainty, and exposes clients to multiple, and oftentimes protracted, court proceedings. In fact, without a set limit, both spouses have reason to litigate. The payor spouses are told that, to limit the length of their obligation, they should file motions to modify “early and often.” On the other hand, spouses who receive spousal support are not incentivized to make realistic efforts to support themselves because they are told that there is potentially no limit to how long they will receive support.

And, indeed, lifetime spousal support is possible under existing law. That can be unfair. Take, for example, the following hypothetical. The parties are married for 15 years. They married when they are 20 and divorce when they are 35. One party works. The other does not. The judge orders one spouse to pay the other spousal support of $2,500 each month, but doesn’t order an end date because it’s a marriage of long duration. Two years later, the spousal support recipient develops a medical condition that prevents the spouse from working.

What happens if the non-working spouse’s medical condition never improves and that spouse is never able to work? Should the payor of spousal support be required to pay $2,500 per month for the rest of the non-working spouse’s life, potentially another 40 years or more? Or, should the burden at some point shift to society to support the spouse unable to work?

Under existing law, the Judge has discretion to require the other party to pay lifetime support, even though the ailment is a completely separate issue from the failed relationship. This unfairly burdens individuals for the care of their ex when the responsibility should more appropriately reside with society. It’s an easy decision for many Courts to make, but one that puts many individuals at a clear disadvantage from moving on with their lives.

All this is not to suggest that a lifetime spousal support order isn’t warranted in certain egregious instances. For example, in the above hypothetical, if the payor of spousal support caused the other spouse to not be able to work (e.g., spousal abuse), that could certainly constitute a justifiable reason to require lifetime spousal support. However, these types of cases are the exception and are not the norm.

To create certainty regarding the length of spousal support in marriages of long duration, there should be a rebuttable presumption that one-half the length of marriage is sufficient for the supported spouse to become self-supporting. If that presumption is rebutted, there should be a mandated termination date on the date that is equal to the length of the marriage (e.g., if the marriage is 20 years, spousal support will terminate at 20 years). There would be exceptions only for egregious circumstances (e.g., spousal abuse), and the burden to prove the egregious circumstance would be placed on the spousal support recipient.

If these changes to the law were made, there would be far greater certainty, less litigation, less expense and courts would be happily relieved of numerous contested spousal support proceedings.

San Diego Attorney Brian Cook

Family Law Attorney Brian Cook

About The Author: Higgs Fletcher & Mack’s Family Law Attorney Brian M. Cook navigates the complicated and often emotional practice of family law with focus and empathy. His approach involves more than just an understanding of complex family dynamics—he provides skill and expertise in high conflict family law matters, to include domestic violence issues, child and spousal support, property division, and child custody and visitation issues. He can be reached at cookb@higgslaw.com.